Who’s Chris Geary ? (last updated 19th May 2008)

Born in Bournemouth (South England), in 1976, I’m now 32 years wise. Most of my childhood was spent growing up in the countryside. Chewton Mendip is a small village on the Mendip Hills in Somerset. This is where my parents still live and run a smallholding as a hobby with about 10 horses.

My boyfriend is Erick De Chavez, we met at a DTPM party during London Pride (3rd July 2004). When I first saw him I was “wow who is that”… he just had these tiny little denim shorts, cute smile and amazing abs. We started hanging out together, 1 month later we were boyfriends. Click Here to see the first photo I ever took of him at London Pride, its very special.

Hobbies of mine include rugby, gym, cycling, wrestling and swimming. I also enjoy photography and video editing, so maintaining this web site also takes up a lot of my spare time. When I lived in Bristol I played rugby union for 8 years, then when I moved to London in 2005 I started playing Rugby League (April - August) as well as the Rugby Union (September - April), so now play all year round. Playing back row, number 8 is my preferred position in Union. For Rugby League I play prop. Click Here to see photos and video of my rugby.

My education after leaving Chewton Mendip Primary school, was at Wells Blue School, then to The Kings of Wessex School in Cheddar. After leaving high school, I took a 3 year National Diploma course in agricultural based business management at Cannington College, Bridgwater (Somerset, UK). It was halfway through the course (1993) that I decided to invest a large proportion of my childhood savings into my first PC; this would help me with my studies and also help me learn more about computers. I remember my friends of that time laughing at me because I'd spent several thousand £’s on a computer system that I didn't know how to use. But unless I bought a computer and taught myself how to use it, I wouldn’t be where I am today. The computer really did change my life. 

After getting my National Diploma I went on to work as a herdsman for a year at a farm in Crewkerne near Taunton. It involved getting up at 4am and milking cows twice a day, very different from my life these days! The following year I farmed beef and arable back on the Mendip Hills. This was with my previous employer David Reaks who I use to work for part time for when I was still at high school. He was the guy who gave me my first ever job and the guy I always looked up to, almost as a fatherly type figure in that time of my life. I remember always wishing my dad could be like him. He was very good to me, I learnt a lot from him, he was a very good business man and I had many good in-depth conversations about life in general. The type of advice my own dad should have given me. Unfortunately I’m not close to my parents, the older I got as a child the further we drifted apart. It’s a shame.

At 20 years old my computer knowledge was getting much better. I wasn’t really ever into playing games, I use to just spend all of my spare time learning about how it operates. The long hours and lack of civilisation in farming eventually made me decide to give it up and move to Bristol, to work as a computer salesman. I really enjoyed the change in the winter months but missed the fresh, outdoor lifestyle during the summer.

In March 1997 (when I was just 20 years old) I took out a mortgage and bought a 2 bedroom house near the centre of Bristol (England). This was probably the best thing I've ever done - the feeling of owning your own home is fantastic. It was also a great investment, I bought the house just at the end of the UK recession when house prices were very cheap, with Britain’s massive housing boom during the following 7 years, and the addition of a 3rd bedroom via a loft conversion, my property more than trebled in value. In November 2003 I was able to fully pay off the mortgage. After seeing the amount of money that can be made via property investment I decided to buy a second home. Due to the high property prices in the UK I looked aboard and chose the sunshine state of Florida in America, where you can get more “house” for your money. Property in the US at the moment is very cheap compared with the UK. The British £ conversion rate into the United States $ is also extremely good. In summer 2004 I finalized the purchase of a beautiful 5 bed-roomed detached house on the outskirts of Miami. Click Here to read more about this and see the photos. Then in the Autumn of 2005 (October 7th) I sold both the Miami and Bristol houses, put the money together and bought a penthouse in central London, near Tower Bridge. It’s got a 360 degree view across the whole of London, with floor to ceiling glass walls, the view is just spectacular. The roof garden is also fantastic as its not over looked by anyone.

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Now I work as the managing director of my own I.T. business, along with my second job (although I wouldn’t really call it real work) of property investment. I also have several adult web sites that generate a small amount of money, plus I work freelance for various publications such as Bent Magazine supplying event photos, organising model shoots, editing images, writing reviews and articles etc. Another job which works really well along side my media work is running a go-go dance agency, supplying go-go boys, drag queens and male strippers to various nightclubs and events across Britain, sometimes even internationally.  

Ever since I was a child I’ve always had my own dog. My last dog “Will” was a black Labrador, click here to see pictures of him. I bought him when we was just 8 weeks old and had him for almost 12 years. Unfortunately he developed a big tumor inside his tummy, which meant he had to be put down. It was a terrible day and I cried my eyes out for days. 12 years is a long time, then to have him gone was a very sad moment in my life. My boyfriend helped me get over the moment and I’m so grateful for him being there for me. I didn’t rush out a buy another dog straight away, I didn’t want to just feel like I could replace him, but the house was so quite. Just recently, in April 2008 I bought an 8 week old pedigree Chocolate Labrador and we called him “Dickie Doo”.

Here's a few photos from my childhood years, click on them for a better look...

           

Other old photos taken from between 1997 - 2002:

 

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Pectus Carinatum (pigeon chest)

I suffer from a deformity of the chest wall in which there is an outward bowing of the sternum. The photos above show what I’d look like if I didn’t have big chest muscles; this was one of the main reason that made me start going to the gym when I was 21. As a child I was very self conscious of it and never took my shirt off or walked around topless. I use to hate swimming lessons and taking group showers at school because of the abnormal look of my chest and the teasing I get from my classmates. Most people have a little concave bit in the centre of their chest, while mine points right out and is called a “pigeon chest” or Pectus Carinatum. Although I really enjoy going to the gym, it is also done to help hide the pigeon chest. The chest muscles either side of the lump take away the odd appearance. It doesn’t bother me anymore.

My First Time

I suppose looking back through my life I've always known I was fully gay but it was hard to accept at first. When I was younger I would have done anything to be straight and "normal" because I was brought up in a society, as I'm sure a lot of people are, to think that you would automatically be heterosexual. Not being taught about gay issues or how to deal with a gay lifestyle is difficult and leaves you very troubled and lonely. Living in the countryside didn't help with the issue either, as rural life is still very traditional in its own sort of way. As I got older I realised that I fancied the boys instead of the girls, and couldn't understand why, and didn't know what to do. I'm not close to my parents, so didn't have anyone I felt comfortable to be able to talk to. I just bottled it up inside me.

When I left home at 16 to go to college, my parents were glad to get rid of me, and even told me so to my face. I will always remember the weekend I’d spent 4 hours cycling home from my college to go home and my mum turned around to me and said ”what are you doing back here, we are paying for your college accommodation, your not welcome here anymore”. We aren't a close family: never going away on family holidays, often arguing and my dad hardly ever used to speak to me unless it was to tell me off. I'll always remember him occasionally whipping me with a horse whip when I'd done something wrong. OK I wasn't a perfect child, but don't consider myself any worse than an average teenage boy. Not that I'll ever have kids, but if I did, I would never hit them or use violence on them under any circumstances. I've also got an older sister, and she could never do anything wrong in my dads eyes. She was always that one step better than me; my dad would do anything for her and it gave me the feeling that I was the son that they never wanted. In my younger teenage years I use to get so depressed that I often used to think about ways to commit suicide. It was only the love of my dog that stopped me, looking back now I'm so glad that I didn't, life has so much more to offer. If there's one thing in the world that I could change about my life, if I could, it would be to have genuine loving parents that I was close to. I now live life to the full and learnt that being gay is not an obstacle but something to be proud of, with many fantastic opportunities and advantages. If I was to be born again I’d want to be gay again. 

When at college, I did the done thing and slept with a girl for the first time. I remember getting an erection with the excitement of being touched, but couldn't get sexually aroused by the female body, nor could I go the full way without fantasising about being with a bloke while I was with her. By the time I reached 18, I was getting really desperate to make sexual contact with another man and find out what it was like to hold another bloke in my arms. The first contact I made was through a gay chat-&-date line. When I first rang it I was really nervous yet excited to actually hear the voice of another gay person. It wasn't long before a local man who was on the line invited me round to his home.

I drove round and remember being extremely tense and cautious. As I approached his house, he opened the door and invited me in. After making a cup of tea, we sat on the sofa together and he put on a porno film. I was really wide eyed by it, as I'd never seen anything like it before. After a while he reached across and put his hand on my leg. "Is that okay?" he asked, "Yeah", I replied, pretending I hadn't noticed. I had a huge heat surge through my body and my heart was beating furiously. He couldn't have not noticed the bulge which was appearing in my tracksuit bottoms. I sat really still, grasping the mug of tea and focused on the video. He slowly slid his hand up my leg and onto my crotch, giving it a squeeze. I remember him saying "who's a big boy then?" and I gave him a small but shy smile at him. Putting down the tea, I stood up and he pulled down my tracksuit bottoms to reveal my white briefs, stretched tight from my erection underneath. I let him feel it through my pants for a while, his hand gently wanking me through my briefs. He moved his hands down and groped my balls, slightly touching them with his fingertips through the gap at the side of my pants, which had appeared under the strain of my erection. I was really aroused - more than I'd ever been in my entire life! It was amazing to think another bloke was touching me, male to male.

He looked up at me from the sofa and said "lets have a look then", with a cheeky grin on his face. He gently slid his hands inside my briefs onto my bum, and slowly pulled them down, feeling the curve of my arse as he did. My cock then suddenly sprung out into his face, standing to attention with military precision. He leant forward and carefully licked the end with his warm tongue. Reaching up, he then grasped it, slowly pulled back the foreskin.

The rest I'll leave to your imagination…

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